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Eating at an Interview

Eating at an Interview writes:  I have a lunch interview coming up in a few days and I'm unsure how to handle eating at the interview.  How should I handle it?

Coach's Answer: Lunch interviews or meetings are popular nowadays but I do not believe that everyone handles them as they should.  You are at the meeting to me assessed and interviewed by a potential employer, not there to enjoy lunch. There are a few suggestions that I would make. First, follow the interviewer's lead.  See what they are ordering and order something within the same price range or less.  I recommend that if they order an alcoholic beverage, you do not.  Never order alcohol when in the company of a potential employer.  I would also stick to something that you would eat with a fork, for example, a salad.  This is so you aren't eating with your hands and keeping the "mess" to a minimum.  If you are someone who is starving during lunchtime, eat something before you go so you are not scarfing food down during the interview.  Remember, you are there to highlight your skills and present yourself in the best light, not to eat!!

Networking Newcomer

Networking Newcomer writes:  I'm in transition and seeking a new job opportunity.  While reading different articles about the job search process, I keep reading about the importance of networking.  Where do I begin?

Coach's answer:  Networking is a huge part of obtaining a job, especially in this economy.  Although it may sound intimidating, it actually is the best way to get yourself out in the market for a new job.  There are so many different opportunities to network.  You can be in line at the grocery store and begin a conversation with the person behind you.  That is networking!  You never know who you are going to meet so think of every conversation you have as an opportunity to network.  Specifically, there are groups and events that you can attend where networking is the focus.  As a beginner, make a list of everyone you know and that will be your starting off point.  Send out an e mail about what type of position you are looking for and ask for help if anyone knows of any openings or connections in specific companies.  Next, focus on local events through your chamber of commerce as well as "googling" networking events/groups in XXX.  Finally, get on LinkedIn (www.linkedin.com).  LinkedIn is similar to a professional Facebook.  You can grow your network, post your resume and even look for jobs on site.  Try it!  You'll be amazed about the opportunities that are out there.